5 Things That Happen When Residents Feel Ghosted

October 31, 2024 Sasha Cancél

Imagine this: it’s midnight, and your phone buzzes with a notification from an unofficial community chat you didn’t know existed. One by one, grievances you thought were resolved come back to life, resurrected by residents who feel unheard, unseen, and ignored. Complaints spread like shadows in the dark, gathering followers who amplify every frustration. Suddenly, your peaceful community is haunted by unrest, as residents bypass the rules, form subversive alliances, and stir up chaos.

In community management, ghosting isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a real problem with real consequences. Ignored residents don’t just fade away; they come back, and they come back stronger. Here are five “ghostly” scenarios that happen when residents feel ignored by their community management—and what you can do to prevent your own haunting.

 

1. They Create Their Own Social Media Groups, Excluding the Board and Management

When residents feel disconnected or out of the loop, they don’t just sit idly by. Many take matters into their own hands, creating private social media groups where they discuss community issues, vent frustrations, and share information—often without all the facts. When management and the board aren’t part of these conversations, misinformation can spread unchecked, and small misunderstandings can escalate into major grievances. In these groups, residents feel free to complain, criticize, and even advocate for changes without any guidance or context from management.

Avoid the Spooky Outcome: Keep residents engaged and informed through an official, centralized platform. When there’s a dedicated space for updates, announcements, and discussions, residents are far less likely to form rogue groups. A platform like ONR ensures everyone stays connected and gets the right information directly from the source.

 

2. They Form Subversive Groups that Push for Unaligned Changes

Nothing’s scarier than a group of residents who feel unheard and start rallying around changes that don’t align with the community’s goals. When residents lack transparency and don’t feel represented, they may organize unofficial groups that challenge board decisions or advocate for radical changes. These groups can create division, leading to friction within the community and disrupting the sense of unity that boards work hard to maintain.

Avoid the Spooky Outcome: An engaged community is a unified community. Using a platform that enables transparent communication and open feedback allows everyone to feel included and gives residents a constructive outlet to express their ideas. With ONR, boards can keep residents informed and involved, ensuring that any push for change aligns with the community’s best interests.

 

3. They Start Ignoring Rules, Leading to Violations and Chaos

When residents feel like their voices aren’t heard, they may decide that the rules don’t matter. Instead of reaching out for clarification or voicing concerns, they simply bypass established guidelines, leading to rule violations that disrupt the harmony and order within the community. From unapproved changes to property decor to parking rule violations, these seemingly small infractions can pile up, creating a chaotic environment that becomes difficult to manage.

Avoid the Spooky Outcome: Make community rules accessible and provide clear channels for residents to ask questions or seek clarification. A centralized platform like ONR lets you post rules, updates, and reminders in a way that’s easy for everyone to access, so residents know exactly what’s expected of them. When communication is clear, compliance naturally improves.

4. They Become Disengaged and Turn into a Silent, Unhappy Majority

When residents feel ghosted, they can lose interest in community life altogether. This often results in a “silent majority” of residents who stop attending meetings, skip community events, and generally disengage from community matters. While they may not voice their concerns openly, this group harbors discontent, leading to low morale and a lack of community spirit. Over time, this disengagement can make it harder for the board to rally support for new initiatives or gather feedback, impacting the overall health of the community.

Avoid the Spooky Outcome: Keep everyone in the loop with an engaging platform that allows residents to stay informed and involved. Features like event reminders, voting capabilities, and real-time updates make residents feel like they’re part of the community’s decision-making process. A well-informed community is an engaged community—and an engaged community is a happy one.

 

5. They Start Looking for Every Reason to Complain

When residents feel ignored, they become hypersensitive to every small inconvenience. Minor issues that would typically go unnoticed suddenly become major complaints. From a light bulb that’s out in the lobby to slightly delayed repairs, everything feels like a reason to voice dissatisfaction. This constant stream of complaints takes up valuable time and energy, creating a more challenging work environment for managers and board members.

Avoid the Spooky Outcome: Prevent complaints before they start by creating open communication channels. Residents are less likely to nitpick when they feel heard and valued. With ONR, you can create a feedback loop that makes residents feel acknowledged, keeping those minor issues from becoming big problems.

Avoid ghosting your residents and prevent your community from turning into a haunted house of complaints, confusion, and conflict. With ONR, the only platform designed to keep a tab on everything-community, you can keep residents connected, engaged, and in the know. ONR provides a central hub for real-time updates, easy access to community guidelines, and a forum for open communication. Don’t let ghosted residents haunt your board—keep everyone on the same page and make community life easier for everyone involved.

 

P.S.

This Halloween, let’s keep the spookiness limited to costumes and decorations. By keeping residents informed and involved, you can create a community that thrives, where everyone feels seen, heard, and engaged. With ONR, you don’t have to worry about ghosting anyone—just a smooth, connected community experience for all.